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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

By Mira Kirshenbaum Narrated by Adriane McNeely ⏱ 8 hrs 33 mins 📅 2010 ★★★★½4.6 · 1,445 ratings

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Mira Kirshenbaum’s Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay is available on Audible as a 8 hrs 33 mins unabridged audiobook, narrated by Adriane McNeely.

Publisher’s Summary

To make up or break up? Whether you’re just getting serious or have a long-term commitment, no other question causes so much heartache and self-doubt. Many other books tell you how to fix your relationship. This groundbreaking best seller is the first one to help you choose whether you should try—or you need to go.

Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems:

  • What sins are forgivable and which ones unpardonable?
  • Is your partner questioning your opinions to the point where you doubt yourself?
  • What is your sex life really like, and how important is it?
  • Is there real love left between you, and how does it stack up against all that you find unlovable?
  • Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line—what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship—and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that, whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing.

Audiobook Details

  • Narrated by: Adriane McNeely
  • Length: 8 hrs 33 mins
  • Publisher: Brilliance Audio
  • Release year: 2010
  • Audible category: Health & Wellness / Psychology & Mental Health / Psychology

Listener Ratings

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay holds an average listener rating of 4.6/5 from 1445 Audible ratings.

On Audible, ratings for this title break down into narration performance and story separately:

  • Performance (narration): 4.6/5
  • Story: 4.6/5
  • 5-star ratings: 72% of all ratings

What Audible Listeners Are Saying

4/5 stars — “Insightful”
I enjoyed this book because it did not try and tell me what to do. It just gave me things to think about, and put some things in perspective. It is a good way to get out of the vicious cycle of thinking too much, because it sets a path for you to find your own answers. Just because you’re ambivalent doesn’t necessarily mean that things are bad OR good. It just means you need some clarity, and I think the author’s questions are a good starting point for that clarity.

— Kim, Audible listener

5/5 stars — “Really helped me resolve my relationship ambivalen”
I have been ambivalent for years about my marriage. This book helped me understand that my marriage is too good to leave, and the reasons behind that logic. Now I can focus on making the marriage better for both of us in a more wholehearted approach.

— kathryn, Audible listener

5/5 stars — “Helpful guide to answers”
Found this book to be a great guide to finding my own answers! Narrator was spot on in her delivery!

— BMRH, Audible listener

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